Hello Voices,
I'm dating two guys. Met one ending of February this year. He hardly calls me, I do all the calling. He only calls me when I flash him, always claiming to be busy. He doesn't care about how I feed, he doesn't give me money at all, only to his family members. He only calls me when he wants to have sex and after that he won't call again until weeks after. I want to know, is been busy a good excuse for not checking up on your girlfriend?
The only good part about is he's not a womanizer, even though he cheats (all men cheat. He's not the discussion type, he doesn't play with me when I visit him.
About the second boyfriend, he's just the opposite of the first one, but a womaniser. He calls other girls in my presence, but I just feel comfortable being around him. As for money, I've never asked. Met him in May.
The issue now is I want to drop one and stay with one. Should I keep the first one that doesn't care and doesn't womanizer or the second one who cares but is a womaniser?
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Thanks for sharing your story ma'am. You did not state your age. I think you are yet to reach your destination with any of them. Take a bold step by walking away and start afresh with a guy that will value you.
You are just sex mates to both of them poster. Run for your life
I can't laugh.....he cheats but not a womanizer. ..he calls when he wants sex...the other one is a womanizer but you are comfortable around him...are you for real dear poster?
As far as I am concern you are not in any relationship. Secondly not all men cheat as you have written. On the hand you are also a cheat for double dating. Drop them both if you can and start a new relationship with a serious minded guy and please learn to stick to one guy.