Hello Voices,
I'm 21 and in a happy relationship with Mr perfect. Though people says that there is no Mr perfect, but trust me with God anything is possible. We were friends for 2 years before we started dating 10 months ago. He loves God so much and our relationship has been sex free. This makes me love him more. I prayed to have someone who doesn't believe in sex before marriage, and God answered my prayer. I'm doing a bachelor in journalism to end next year.
I live with my mum as my parents got divorced.
My mum always says that she wants me to get my masters degree, that I have to use the opportunity now because she won't live forever. I agreed with her but my boyfriend is now telling me that as soon as I graduate, we should get married. He's just waiting for me to finish next year and doesn't want to don't want to sin(sex) and because he is human, he has feelings. He doesn't seem happy with what my mum and I want. Now, he has told me to forget about the Masters whether I like it or not because he is the one to decide when we should get married. He also told me that I can have my masters when I get married. What should I do?
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Thanks for sharing your story ma'am. You are 21 and if this guy is 'mr prefect' like you said, why can't he wait? My sister, marriage is a big deal and it changes men. Commitment gets to them. They are always sweet during courting and all that but wait till you get married to him.
The other way round, you can meet the love of your life at any age. I'm not discouraging you but if you feel within you that he's the one, talk to your mother then but I will personally like it that you go for your masters. I wish you the best.
I disagree with you Misola. One thing ladies fail to learn is that your husband can appear to you at any given time, don't think because you're 21 so you still have lot of life ahead, marry him now and do your masters later. Yes, men change a lot, he can as well change but that wouldn't be his fault, it's yours cos you're being selfish and He has waited enough. How about you finish your masters and he's gone already, then u have to start over?Your age is not a priority, ur husband can come at 21,u miss him and the next husband comes at 35...choose wisely, You can get your masters when you're married. Education doesn't make you rich remember? Ask me.
Besides, who masters don epp?
Hellooo am still working on my account
Trust me his getting sex out side.my dear hope Dt Guy hv not come to distract u(God forbid)such happened to my sis today d story ended a tragedy.let him register u for masters wt hs mony if he meant well for u.my dear, be wise study ds Guy more he may be forming to be too religious, churchy,or spiritual.(jukwa èse)look before u leap. Goodluck.
I think you should marry. Education is always there for you any time.