Hello Voices, I am a 22yrs old lady dating a guy of 31yrs old we've dating for 1yr and 4months now. He promised me marriage but what I don't understand is that he likes flirting with girls too much.
Last year November, I got pregnant for him he changed from being the sweet guy I know to something else.
When I told him about it, I called him and asked what he wants us to do because he was sad about it and I don't want to force myself on him with my pregnancy.
He knows he's the owner of it because since I know him no other guy have seen my nakedness he can swear about it but when I asked him what he wanted us to do about it he said I will have to abort it that a lady from her street said I am the wrong person for him.
We fought over it cos I was surprise at his sudden behaviour. This is the same guy that used to call me the mother of his unborn children.
He beat me when I visited him the next day to talk about it again because I was afraid of doing abortion I went home and was expecting his call he did not call or show up at my place. Till When the pregnancy was three months, I called him because my mum was suspecting me and we reached an agreement.
We went to where the abortion will be carried out, when inside the room I saw hell. Instead of him to be worried he was busy with my phone collecting my friends number.
When I got home that day I bought the drugs the lady said I should buy with my money. The number he collected from my phone was still making me angry at the same time I was happy I came out alive.
I changed my number because of him.
Some weeks later, he came to apologize, I told him I have already done that because of the love I have for him.
He begged for us to come back together. I agreed since then we have been dating but right now I think I am pregnant but afraid of telling him because I don't want to do another abortion although he promised to come for my introduction this December and even swear that he wanted to marry me.
I Am confused, help me.
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Interesting
I wonder why you are confused, you should be done with him